I was recently emailing with a friend of mine.I offered this individual a gift.They responded, “you don’t have to, it’s not necessary.“No true gift is free of risk.My quick analysis is that giving a gift was a disruption.Here’s how I imagine their subconscious to have responded:“I have everything that I need, am I missing something? Oh no! Maybe I don’t! Quick, do I have everything? What do I need? Do we have food?” - Friend’s SubconsciousThen they calmly respond, “You don’t have to, it’s not necessary.“For 1/10 of 1/100000ths of a second, there was a momentary risk. A feeling that they might not have what they need - a disruption. Then, followed by acceptance.  Of course, giving a gift is not necessary.That’s why we give gifts.

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