Things aren't as bad as they seem

We needed to arrive at the location before 4pm. If we missed the time, it’s possible we might not complete a critical task on behalf of my dad. We left the first location at 2:30pm, and it became clear that we would arrive at our destination around 3:40pm. We would be rushing to complete our task. Only to have to rush back home in order to make another deadline.

At 3pm I decided to turn the car around and head back home. Why rush? Why stress about getting from one point to another? I, and my compatriots, are already stressed and tired — why put ourselves through more of it? My decision created some frustration that quickly abated — “we’re almost there, let’s just get this done… we’ll rest when we’re dead.”

Today, I learned that we didn’t need to head to any location yesterday — everything could be done by phone from the convenience of our home.

I’m reminded of a story my Dad told me — many times. I’ll change the story — [changes] — so that it’s appropriate for this audience — my Dad wasn’t always the cleanest story teller.

Atop a hill sat two young bulls. A young one, and an old one. In the valley, there sat a collection of female cows.

The young bull looked to the old bull and said, let’s run down and [read scripture] to one or two of them. The old bull turned to the young bull and said, let’s walk down and [read scripture] to them all.

Sometimes the simplest and least stressful plan produces the maximal experience of life. And, while moving slower might feel less productive, in the end, it’s likely better.

Commentary: If you know my dad, you know how that story went. And if you didn’t, then I’m comfortable with you believing that he spoke about reading scripture often.

The cold stoic nature